One of the worst aspects of a break-up is being left alone wondering "Why?" - while she goes off to pursue the next big love of her life. Many react by stalking or terrorizing their ex hoping to bully or guilt-trip - or downright beg - them into coming back. The truth is, these methods never work, and all they really accomplish is to push her away even further. This is why in this article I reveal a secret sure-fire way to get your ex back by rekindling the old flame of your relationship and making HER want YOU back - and how I used this technique to get my own ex back in just 17 days!
First of all, no matter why your relationship ended, the real reason is always that the fire and passion just weren't there anymore. Whether she cheated on you or you bugged her to death or refused to meet her parents - the truth is, her passion for the relationship was gone and therefore wasn't enough for her to tolerate your shortcomings any longer.
The best way to reignite this spark is to remind her exactly what she's missing by dropping out of her life completely. As long as you continue to beg her to come back, she'll keep treating you as an emotional tampon - and as someone to keep on the backburner if her new relationship doesn't work out. You're not someone she's interested in - you're just someone she wants around to boost her self-esteem just in case she gets rejected by her new guy.
By staying away from her and avoiding all forms of contact, you'll turn the tables and send her a clear signal that YOU, not her, are the prize in this relationship. Women are attracted to men who are a challenge - and her curiosity will be piqued the second she realizes you're no longer obsessed with her.
This technique is known as "No Contact", and it is credited with saving many relationships simply by driving your ex to the point where SHE becomes obsessed with YOU. She will be driving herself crazy wondering if you have met someone new - and before too long, she WILL call you, driven by sheer curiosity and by the uncaring attitude you projected by simply vanishing from her life.
In my case, just as I expected, my ex called me back in exactly 14 days. Since I already knew what was coming, I planned to turn that phone call into a lunch date - and then some more! The trick was to avoid saying things that I knew will freak her out - so if you want to know what NOT to say to avoid this phone call becoming your last ever contact with her, click here to visit my website where I review my own experience of getting my ex back in just 17 days!
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